The storming of the D-Day beaches in Normandy, France, on June 6, 1944, proved to be the turning point of World War II. The soldiers who stormed the beaches in the early hours of that day fought for freedom and democracy and against dictatorship and fascism. Thousands paid with their lives. Here, in the Normandy American Cemetery and Memorial at Colleville-sur-Mer, the 9,387 graves, mostly of those who died during the invasion, are a stark reminder of the horrific cost of human life in the fight for freedom and the accompanying grief experienced by their families and descendants, friends, and comrades.
Today, as then, we as a country are experiencing collective grief. While there may be those who cheer on the destruction this administration has wrought and continues to wield, there are many of us who find ourselves in a state of grief.
While it has been said that the stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance, I would argue that these stages may not be all encompassing and we may not move through them linearly. The “shock and awe” of the first 100 days of this administration is wearing off. It is exhausting and overwhelming by design. It is normal to grieve the destruction of our democracy as the US slides towards authoritarianism.
Some of us may be in denial and may ignore the news because it is just too overwhelming. Would-be dictators prefer a nation that either does not know the truth or has given up trying to discern truth. Ignorance is a tool that they use to gain power. Staying informed without feeling overwhelmed is crucial to resisting the whims of this administration. Also, resisting the temptation to normalize this administration’s ways is important. Otherwise, we are lulled into complacency. Not allowing ourselves to become numb to all the changes is essential to vigilance.
Some of us may be at the stage of anger. We may be angry at this administration and at those who voted for them. But at some point, many of these voters will come to the realization that the actions and policies of this administration are either not what they thought they were voting for or they will realize they are negatively impacted by this administration’s actions. When that happens, we must put aside electoral differences and welcome them into the big tent of resistance.
We may be angry at the Democrats for failing to act. As the opposition party, the Democrats do not have a majority in either chamber of Congress and so they are limited in what they, as elected leaders, can do. It is often difficult to understand what, if anything, the Democratic party is doing to stop this slide towards authoritarianism and to feel anger towards their seeming inaction.
There are a few members of Congress speaking up, while others seem to be trying to figure out how to respond. Within the halls of Congress, Democrats are beginning to resist strategically and to proclaim the harm that the party in power is wreaking on the American people. They need to loudly participate in resistance to this regime, to be the party that stands with the average American, and to offer abundance as a stark counterpoint to the other party’s use of scarcity. Instead of taking away programs and fear-mongering, I hope they will provide concrete plans for practical uses of tax dollars that will benefit the working and middle classes, not the wealthy and oligarchs.
In the meantime, while we wait for Democratic party leadership to evolve (and for enough Republican members in Congress to resist), we, the people, need to put our anger and our grief over losing our democracy to good use. Peaceful protests and boycotts do have positive impacts. Protests in previous times were successful in gaining voting rights for women, people of color, and the LGBTQA+ community. Protests were also successful in bringing the Vietnam War to a close. In other countries around the world, protests have brought down regimes in Argentina as well as Ukraine (in 2014). Perhaps a more relevant example of the positive results of peaceful protests are the weekly Tesla Takedowns across the country and across the globe. They have been successful in highlighting how unpopular DOGE is and have been a key force in driving out its leader from the government while financially impairing his company, its stock, and his personal wealth.
There is power in peaceful protests. Authoritarian leaders cannot take power unless the people allow it. Protesting is a way to vote in the court of public opinion. Channeling our anger in peaceful protests is a way to exercise our power.
I hope we never get to the last stage of grief called acceptance. We must not accept the destruction of our democracy. We must continue to use our voices to resist. By contrast, silence is complicity. Those who do not speak up against this slide towards authoritarianism are indeed enabling it. Whether they are members of Congress or members of the public, the time to speak up is now before it is too late. We cannot give up on democracy. We cannot let the thousands who died for freedom on the beaches of Normandy and elsewhere to have died in vain.
Dictators and oligarchs want us to be divided and feeling alone. When we channel our grief and anger into working for the collective good with the endgame of democracy, we will find our voice and our power. When we protest peacefully together, we generate hope and energy. There is power in our solidarity. Being part of something bigger than ourselves connects us to each other in ways not possible without this collective grief experience. It is indeed good grief.
WHAT WE CAN DO:
The federal budget and tax bill, aka “the Big Beautiful Bill” (or – the Big Brutal Bill), recently passed the US House and is currently in the Senate. If it passes in the Senate, it will cut SNAP by $300 billion, impacting over 40 million people that rely on food assistance. The bill will also cut Medicaid by over $700 billion over the next 10 years, impacting 72 million people’s health care, including kicking 10.3 million people completely off their medical insurance. It gives tax breaks to the wealthy, costing the rest of us $1.7 trillion. It will also increase the national budget deficit by $3.8 trillion. There are other issues tucked into this bill, like limiting federal courts’ power to enforce contempt citations as well as increasing ICE’s detention budget from $3.4 billion to $48 billion and their transportation and removal operations budget from $721 million to $14.4 billion.
Call your representatives in Congress to voice your opinion and to specifically call out this reverse Robinhood bill that takes from the poor and gives to the rich. The congressional switchboard number is (202) 224-3121. If that line is busy, call your representative at their DC or local office. Check their websites for contact info.
5calls.org is a great resource when contacting your congressmember or senator. Current issues are listed on this website along with scripts by issue to use in your conversation with your representative. Let your voice be heard!
Check out Indivisible.org for peaceful protests and other events where you can get involved.
Check out NOPE (Neighbors Defending Democracy) to see how you can get involved.
Plan to participate in the “No Kings” rallies around the country on June 14 as a counter to the military/birthday parade scheduled in DC. (See Indivisible or NOPE for more info.)
JUNE IS PRIDE MONTH! Check out history.com.
Text and photograph copyright © 2025 by Dawn Dailey. All rights reserved. Photo of Normandy American Cemetery and Memorial at Colleville-sur-Mer, France, the largest American cemetery outside the US.
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A NOTE ON SOCIAL JUSTICE:
Jesus says the greatest commandments are to love God and to love people (Matthew 22:37-40). The Christian faith boils down to these two precepts.
Social justice puts that love into action by helping individuals who are oppressed, mistreated, or suffering, and by pursuing ways to dismantle systems of oppression. How we treat others, particularly those less powerful in society than ourselves, matters (Matthew 25:31-46).
Racial justice is one aspect of social justice. Check out my web page on “Justice Matters” to find resources and to connect with organizations engaging in the cause of racial justice. Click here to learn more.